Help me to do it myself!

"Help me to do it myself!" - Why independence is the key to development
Maria Montessori formulated a cornerstone of child development with her famous phrase "Help me to do it myself!". This simple but powerful invitation reflects the desire of every child to explore the world independently and to learn through independent action. But why is it so important to give children this space - even if it sometimes takes longer or something goes wrong?

The value of independence
For children, independence means taking responsibility, making their own decisions and learning from their experiences. These processes not only promote self-confidence, but also the ability to overcome challenges. By finding their own way, children strengthen their problem-solving skills, their stamina and their confidence in their own abilities.

Montessori education: learning by doing
In Montessori education, the focus is on the child. The task of the adult is to create a prepared environment that enables the child to work independently. The adult only intervenes when the child really needs support - and then only as much as necessary so that the child can manage the rest themselves.

An example from everyday life: instead of tying your child's shoes, you can use a practice board or simple instructions to teach them to do it themselves. Climbing toys, learning towers and other aids, such as those offered by tiSsi®, are also an expression of this philosophy. They promote independence by enabling children to act safely and independently - be it when reaching the kitchen worktop or climbing.

Creating space for mistakes
Children learn primarily through experience. Mistakes are not setbacks, but important learning opportunities. For example, if a child spills something when pouring water, they learn to coordinate their movements and work more carefully. Adults should show patience and understanding at such moments instead of intervening or criticizing.

Independence as a foundation for life
Children who learn to act independently at an early age will benefit throughout their lives. They develop resilience, personal responsibility and the ability to master complex situations. These skills are essential not only for childhood, but also for later personal and professional development.

tiSsi® - a philosophy of independence
tiSsi® also follows this approach by designing its products to promote children's independence. Learning towers raise children to eye level, climbing toys provide space for their own adventures and high chairs enable the youngest children to actively participate in family life. All of this supports the guiding principle: "Help me to do it myself."

Conclusion: Giving confidence, developing potential
By giving children the space to do things for themselves, we not only encourage their development, but also show them: "I have confidence in you." This attitude strengthens the bond between parent and child and lays the foundation for a fulfilled, self-determined life. Or as Maria Montessori put it: "Any unnecessary help is an obstacle to development."